If so, you're not alone. But with the right tools and support, it is possible to have a thriving marriage AND business.
- Do you and your partner struggle when disagreements (inevitably) come up?
- Do you tiptoe around topics that you haven’t been able to resolve in the past?
- Do you sometimes feel the business (creative work, ministry, or dog) is a 3rd party in your marriage, getting more time and attention than you do?
- Do you and your spouse struggle to understand each other’s motivations, quirks, or stubborn streaks?
- When you think about your future together, are you excited to grow old together? Or worried your marriage may not make it that long?
- Do you sometimes feel more like business partners than life partners?
Do you and your partner struggle when disagreements (inevitably) come up?
Do you tiptoe around topics that you haven’t been able to resolve in the past?
Do you sometimes feel the business (creative work, ministry, or dog) is a 3rd party in your marriage, getting more time and attention than you do?
Do you and your spouse struggle to understand each other’s motivations, quirks, or stubborn streaks?
When you think about your future together, are you excited to grow old together? Or worried your marriage may not make it that long?
Do you sometimes feel more like business partners than life partners?
does this sound familiar?
Create the Kind of Marriage Most Only Dream About
Our meeting with Kathy was a pivotal moment in our lives. We felt stuck and couldn’t make a decision regarding our next steps. Kathy’s unique knowledge of entrepreneurship and marriage helped us see our situation in a new light. We’ve had more peace and direction since our initial meeting with Kathy.
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Daniel & Amanda Espinoza
After becoming parents this year, we wanted to check in with a marriage coach and build on our solid marriage. Our sessions with Kathy were enlightening and helpful. We really appreciate her probing questions, and the framework and tools that she provided us with. We found them easy to remember and apply on a daily basis to improve our communication and connectedness. As we navigate our new roles, Kathy's guidance has left us feeling more aligned and in sync than ever before.
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Rebecca & Ben Kushner
When the entrepreneurial journey is such an ever-present part of our marriage and family, it's hard to figure out what healthy communication with my wife should look like. The business demands can easily consume everything. Because Mark and Kathy have walked a similar path, I've learned from their example of how to be more balanced and intentional in building up my marriage.
couples coaching
Brad & Jooyoung Voeller
Scott and I did the personality profiles and it was so helpful to understand how we're wired... especially since our styles are very different. We both tend to get lost in our thoughts, which can make us seem unapproachable to each other and our kids. That was a blind spot for me. Kathy did a wonderful job interpreting our results (without judgment!) and coached us on how to recognize and respond to each others' styles.
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Jen and Scott Selverian
Like many of you, my shared responsibilities in marriage and entrepreneurship have forced me to navigate many highs and lows throughout the years.
At a particularly low point in our lives, I realized something had slipped, and there was work to be done to preserve the marriage we had always envisioned. But after trying to find resources for entrepreneurial marriage, the pickings were slim.
It was this season that inspired what is now Lodestar Relationship coaching with the mission of sharing this hard-won wisdom from business and marriage to help other couples, like you, create loving connection.
a seasoned marriage specialist and entrepreneur
Meet Kathy
Lodestar Defined:
One that serves as an inspiration, model, or guide
My own, personal story often attracts highly-driven and entrepreneurial couples, but I'm ready to partner with anyone seeking growth and hope in their marriage or partnership!
- Entrepreneurs
- Highly Driven Personalities
- Mission-Minded Couples
- Ministry Leaders
- Business Leaders
Who Can Benefit from Coaching?
In short: Anyone seeking relationship advice for a current or future partnership
Specialties Currently Include:
- Individuals whose partner is not open to relationship coaching at this time
- Couples from all career paths or walks of life
- Anyone who believes more can be possible with the help of the right professional -- and that's you!
But I'm Also Looking For:
Gottman Techniques
Emotionally Focused Therapy
EFT
Family
Systems
My Proven Approach
A personalized, 90-minute, mini workshop to identify each person’s “wiring” and provide tools and tips for communication that connects. The takeaway is a solid sense of “US” with actionable communication tools you will use immediately.
Building on Uniquely Us, this 3-month track provides a framework and tools for busy couples who want to safeguard their relationship.
Relationship Renewal
If the occasional sessions aren't enough to move the needle forward in your relationship, consider a 4-hour intensive where all distractions are removed, and we get to the root of what's going on.
Relationship
Turnaround
Services Offered
I strive to serve you and your partner as effectively as possible which is why I've specifically curated three unique and personalized services to get you started towards progress. Click below to explore my available offerings or contact me today to request additional information.
Uniquely Us
Is it time for a relationship tune-up? Maybe your marriage is in transition—a new baby, new job, empty nest, or retirement—and you feel out of step with each other. You might just need a few sessions to reconnect and get back on track.
À La Carte Coaching Session
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If the occasional sessions aren't enough to move the needle forward in your relationship, consider a 4-hour intensive where all distractions are removed, and we get to the root of what's going on.
Relationship Turnaround
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This 6-session track provides a framework and tools for busy couples who want to reconnect, realign & renew their relationship.
Relationship Accelerator
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A personalized, 90-minute, mini workshop to identify each person’s “wiring” and provide tools and tips for communication that connects. The takeaway is a solid sense of “US” with actionable communication tools you will use immediately.
Uniquely Us
Learn more
Is it time for a relationship tune-up? Maybe your marriage is in transition—a new baby, new job, empty nest, or retirement—and you feel out of step with each other. You might just need a few sessions to reconnect and get back on track.
À La Carte Coaching Session
We strive to serve you and your partner as effectively as possible which is why we've specifically curated three unique and personalized services to get you started towards progress. Click below to explore our available offerings or contact us today to request additional information.
Services Offered
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