For the newlyweds (What I wish we’d known then)

There’s something wistful about seeing newly weds. Their relationship is fresh and new–their whole future is before them.  I wouldn’t go back to those days, but I do wish we had known some things that we learned the hard way. It’s hard to give advice to engaged or newly married couples, because they are convinced […]

Have You Reviewed the State of Your Union?

Continuing on the theme of resolutions/goals, I have a question for those of you that are married.  How would you rate the “state of your Union” on a scale of 1-10, with 10 being “couldn’t be any better”? I recently asked my guy of 36 years, and there was a long pause. “OK, awkward pause, honey.” […]